Aging: Plus or Minus?

I just spent an hour or so trying to write a decent post on a serious subject, and I ended up too depressed to finish it. Not good. So I decided to try something different.

As many of you know, I’m just a few months away from turning seventy. What you may not know is I have mixed feelings about it. So if you’ll permit me to look at the pluses and minuses of aging, I’ll be grateful.

Plus: I’m retired, and I have very few required activities. Most of those can be done at my leisure. I’m free to pursue my writing and play my guitar whenever I like and continue recording my compositions at home.
Minus: Despite the variety of activities I enjoy doing, if I’m not careful, even the best of those activities can become routine.

Minus: I take a variety of kinds of medicines and still have aches and pains that seemingly have no cause.
Plus: Those medicines help to keep me in what I would basically consider good health.  Why should I be upset? I don’t gripe about having to wear glasses, do I? And the undiagnosable aches and pains aren’t that horrible. Yet.

Minus: Each week at my church’s nursing home ministry, I can’t keep from wondering whether I’ll someday need to use the LTC (Long term care) insurance we finally decided we’d be foolish not to have.
Plus: I’m not in a nursing home yet, and I don’t have any conditions that make LTC living seem likely in the foreseeable future. And if I do end up in a nursing home, maybe by then I’ll be sufficiently, uh, not-myself to care.

Minus: I can’t do everything I used to be able to do.
Plus: I should be thankful for how many of them I can still do. Sure, my agility makes my guitar playing harder at times, but at least I can still play. In fact, I can’t think of anything I can’t still do at all. Maybe just not as well or as quickly.

Minus: I’m becoming more forgetful.
Plus: At least I haven’t forgotten anything important. And I’ve always had trouble remembering people’s names and faces. Did I honestly expect that to improve with age?

Minus: With the extra time I have now, I’ve become more interested in politics. And I’ve become more concerned about the decline in American values, especially during the last eight years. It’s depressing. Especially considering our choices in the upcoming election.
Plus: I can still vote and I can still pray. It may not be in God’s will to restore America’s greatness, but I have every confidence that He can.  I believe in the power of prayer, and that makes me feel so much better.

Minus: In spite of everything, I know I’ll continue to age and deteriorate until the end comes.
Plus: Hmm. That’s true for all of us, isn’t it? But as a Christian, I have the promise of Heaven to look forward to. That should relieve me of my complaints about any aspect of aging.

Do you have any particular pluses and minuses about the idea of aging? How about leaving a comment?

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Roger

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2 thoughts on “Aging: Plus or Minus?

  1. There are a bunch of plus and minuses on my list as well.
    Plus: I know more than I used to and can use that knowledge as leverage.
    Plus: I’ve managed to overcome some unproductive habits I used to bow down to.
    Plus: I’m more content with my lot in life.
    Plus: I have more money now and know how to use it wisely.
    Plus: I’ve accumulated lots of friends and know the difference between friends and acquaintances. I’ve been a good friend to the people I love.
    Plus: I have more time to think than I used to. This is because I watch zero TV but do a lot of reading.
    Plus:I’ve been a good parent and my kids love me.

    Minus: My physical abilities have diminished.
    Minus: I am closer to the end than I am to the beginning of my stay here.
    Minus: I have lost some important people in my life already.
    Minus: I haven’t planned well for my retirement. I never think about retirement.
    Minus: I haven’t done some of the things I wanted to do. I’ve done a lot but I think I could have done more,like travel. Maybe I’ll have enough time to remedy this one.
    Minus: I’ve made some mistakes along the way and sometimes, in that quiet hour alone, I wonder what would the world be like If I was smarter younger.

    Life is something wonderful and I can say I have really enjoyed most of the trip. I just hope the actual snuffing out of the candle is painless.

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